You're welcome, but honestly - who doesn't have things to work through? In my limited experience with breakups, even if they go as planned, they're still bad. Someone gets hurt regardless of intention. And if nobody's hurt, then likely they hate each other by the time they got to the breaking up part.
Of course, this is all observation; I've only really had one proper relationship myself and a few one or two month flings. I'm hardly an expert.