I do know I attract trouble. And some people can't ... handle that trouble. Or the late nights and occasional nightmares.
That part is on me. And sometimes I can't even find a reason. It just happens.
But everyone fits in, even when they don't it in. Just a little different. I knew a person who was a natural loner, didn't stick with friends very well. And yet with the right people and the right circumstances, everyone made it work.
A few weeks ago I'd probably more pessimistic than you are. In fact I was.