But then you wouldn't be able to call anything wonderful. Lots of people die or are afraid of bees, but I still think they're wonderful. And ice on the street is natural. People learn how to make it work, by changing their tiers or wearing pointy shoes or even going snow shoeing. You can't salt all of the street, eventually you just need to learn how to live with the ice, and I think it's pretty wonderful when people figure those things out!
It's never okay when people die or get hurt, and I'm really sorry people were so rude when you're mother died. And especially with reporters following you around. Bad things are bad, and they're not wonderful, but just because something causes something bad to happen doesn't mean the something is bad.