It's true, very true. My first dreams were about time, changing the course of the future - and it wasn't something I should have been toying with to begin with, no matter what the intentions were. Let the terrible things you are meant to happen, happen. Better things rise from ruin.
That's something reassuring, at least. When's a good time for lunch for you? There's some nice beachfront eats but they tend to be a bit chilly.