Yes, that does seem quite how it goes. But then, people often hate what they don't understand. I suppose the whole matter will unfold for us. Whether we like it or now.
Really now? Have you mesmerised some lovely lady with that beard of yours? Or has your roguish charm worked on a dear fella? I do think we'd have to hold off on a show and tell then, dearest. Taken men should not gaze on mostly nude ladies.