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That still doesn't mean a lack of buildup means brushoff. I wasn't dead for that long either. Raven zapped me back with...something. Magical CPR. Despite all that, my point is that it's traumatic and I get it. When we start going 'just another Tuesday' about death here, that's when we'll know it's bad.
I can recommend this guy solidly, he's really good. If you want someone new.