I don't want to throw a wrench in your psychoanalysis, but it's really telling that you decided, on the basis of two comments, that I'm the one in the wrong here, when you have absolutely no experience in dealing with people who have the same dreams of you, much less in dealing with people who don't believe you.
And--just as an impartial observer--you seem to have a whole lot of empathy for the person defending and denying the fact that someone they know is potentially a homicidal psychopaths, and not any empathy for the person who had to deal with the memories of that person actually trying to kill them.
So.
That's cool of you to make judgments about people you don't know at all in situations you yourself have never been in. You go ahead and keep doing that, because that always works out.