Honestly, the person who isn't willing to give people a chance to prove what kind of person they are. He doesn't sound like a nice guy if you ask me. I know the Dreams affect us, but it doesn't make us who we are you know? We are in control of our own lives.
No problem. I'm glad I could be somewhat helpful. And I mean it, any time you need to talk about anything Dream related or not, feel free to text/call me.