It's my job. When I signed up for this, I was told I'm a personal assistant to Tony Stark. You handle all that stuff I don't get, and I deal with the people. And the snacks in the breakroom, apparently. I'm sorry that he didn't tell you ahead of time and I know it probably hurt to have me suddenly show up and start training, but all I did was come in for an interview and get a job. I didn't know that would bother someone so much.
I don't see him being violent anywhere.
You say that, and then you tell Damon that I whined to my husband so he could threaten someone on the internet? I wasn't even going to tell him, but he noticed I was upset. And I didn't ask him to attack you. He did that on his own because he was pissed off. Wouldn't you be mad too if someone you love got talked to the way you talked to me?