Sometimes guys know early and some don't realize or accept it until later. I was young when I realized it so I've had time, but it's understandable if you've only recently realized it that all of this is new to you. My boyfriend, who commented at the top was like that when we first met.
I'm sorry. What I was trying to say was that I get it. It sucks that there are still so many close minded people out there. I'm Justin, by the way. If you ever want or need to talk, I'm a pretty good listener.