I know, but it'll be nice. You said you're little in your dreams, right?
[Damian] ...I actually don't think this is a situation I've run into before. I'm afraid you're going to have to actually talk to her, though - there's really no other way around it. Find a place where you're both comfortable, and be honest. As cliche as it sounds, honesty really is the best policy. You can ask someone you trust to approach her first on your behalf if you'd like, but the explanations and everything should all come straight from you. Trust me, having someone tell you "he didn't mean to upset you" has nothing on hearing it from the actual person.