[Alistair]
Well, communication is key when it comes to anything in that area. I think Zevran is an amazing guy and that he really likes you, so much so that I think he would be patient and would probably enjoy teaching you a few things.
If you're worried about the whole porn thing you've gotta remember that it's a job when he does it, but with you it would be because he wanted to be with you. It's like making love vs fucking, at work he's fucking with you he's making love, there's a big difference.