They do all of that to try and help you find out who you want to be. Not who you are.
Sometimes they forget that who you are is already who you want to be.
Be you. Pursue the life you want to pursue - your father will kill me if I don't add here that that life should be. You know. A legal one.
Too many of us get to be 30 and realise we've been doing what we hated the whole time. Or what someone else told us we should. If you have something you know you want now, that you can strive for and won't get you in trouble with the law, then do that.
Just smile and nod at the councilors. Think about how many of them wanted to be that when they grew up.