[filtered]
For you, perhaps, but not for me. That's bleedover from some other time or life or whathaveyou. In other words, that's some other dream you's feelings. You're going to simply have to realize that at some point or other, and not let it dictate what the hell happens here.
The same rules do not apply and there's no use pursuing something that's simply not there. It's somewhere else. The sooner you recognize that fact, the better off you and your entire life will be.