I wouldn't expect it to be a come on, men are not in my table of romantic interests. I simply take it as a friendly gesture.
I can offer Carrot-Ginger Tea Sandwiches, Strawberries in Lemon-Lavender Syrup, and Rose Petal Drop Scones.
It's what I have on hand from a previous discussion with my book club. What tea would you prefer made, and is there a preference of sugar or honey, or milk or cream?