Sometimes things fall into your lap when you're least expecting them, it's true. But you do seem to be handling things well, from what you've said here. You've got a good grip on the situation.
I'm definitely prepared for a lot of hard work and a lot of pushing back, but I've a lot of patience and a lot of love to give, and I want to be able to share it with a young man or woman who is in need of some love and caring.