jack benjamin is not going to run, not anymore (jackathan) wrote in valarnet,
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Really? This "for a friend" bullshit? Whatever lets you sleep better at night, I guess.
Liking messing around with a man doesn't make you gay. Wanting to be in a romantic relationship with and having all of your sexual desire directed at men makes you gay -- though I suppose the former isn't an absolute requirement. If you -- your friend, sorry, -- likes women still, you're somewhere in the middle, to whatever degree.
And of course I have to do the requisite "there's nothing wrong with you if you are". Which there isn't. But... I know at the beginning of figuring it out it doesn't always feel that way. So. "Your friend" can text me at [number] if he needs to talk to someone who's been through the scary parts and come out the other side. So to speak.