It's no presumption. If I didn't want the advice of strangers and near-strangers, I wouldn't have posted to a public forum. Your advice is solicited.
I worry that she may think it's what she wants, but when reality sets in she'll change her mind.
We already spend several hours each week on Skype, but that's nowhere near the amount of time I know I would have to make for her were she actually living here with me. Though, the schools here are good, and she already has many friends here... those are incentives to stay.
I'm not sure she understands how demanding my responsibilities at the hospital are. I'm not sure I'll be able to adequately explain it to her.