I quite agree. It's all so...messy...is what sex looks like. How something like that remotely connects with love, which has that PURE level about it is hard to reconcile when I've tried. Why is sex the expression of it for most people? It...doesn't seem like something you would do to express that but rather things like "I own you" or "you are mine because I got my bodily fluids in/on you."
If other people enjoy it, I'm not saying they shouldn't but... I don't get it either, I guess? I suppose I'd have it if I loved someone enough but I can't imagine it doing anything for me.
Some of my friends are just as bad with it so it's not like even goes away in college.