I like graceful fighting. Then again, my style tends to be an aggressive sort of evasive.
I'm not saying that grapples and pins don't have a place in a real fight. I'm just saying if I want to watch a fight I'm not in, I have more fun when they're actually doing more than grappling each other.
Some UFC fights don't turn into that and those are the best.
Shoving junk in people's faces isn't sexual, it's funny.