>>And no one can be perfect >>I know that better than most people >>and parents that expect perfect from their children >>are setting their kids up for >>so much mental anguish. >>Even those that aren't as overtly unhinged >>as your father is. >>Because nothing kills your self esteem more >>than being constantly put under pressure because >>your best isn't good enough. >>And that is before everything else that he did >>that just >>makes it all the worse.
>>Summon or not, it was still him that did it. >>Not in a sense. In actual fact. >>If someone hits your house with a car >>it wasn't the car that did it.