She shrugged, "It wasn't so bad. Well, no, that's a lie, it was." She shook her head, "Didn't find out until after he'd been killed that he was going to propose. Wasn't there when he died because I was off taking the Trials." There was a faint smile then, "And it's a good thing, too, or we wouldn't be having this conversation."
Another, more 'what-can-you-do' shrug, "And I think evolution's smart enough to know that that trait works for some people."