Generally people didn't like the truth when it came to things they were afraid of. That's just the way it was or else they wouldn't be afraid of it all. "He's still going to love you and I have a hunch even though I don't know him that even if you told him to sod off he'd not actually give up. He doesn't seem like the type to take no for an answer." she smiled a bit.
She did think that it could work though, even if she didn't know Ate that well. And even though knowing what she was, she thought she had a good head on her shoulders. "I'd be honored to be invited, thank you. Really though I think if you talk to him about.. what will change and won't change if you get married you'll be surprised."