"You don't have to be a hardass, you know. You can buy them things just like I can, but you're the one they'll come to when they get hurt. The first time he falls and scrapes his knee, who do you think he's going to come to? You'll put a band aid on him and kiss it better, and that will mean so much more than a toy." Those kinds of gestures had always meant more to Tony when he was growing up anyway. "I was pretty happy. Then again I was building computers when I was four, but yes, I was. I was also closer to my mom than my dad."