K. She's into you, but she doesn't want to admit it because it would somehow feel to her like she's admitting defeat. Kind of like your 'list' of late? She's trying to prove to herself that she doesn't like you, but she does because when her inhabitions are down (i.e. when she's drunk) the truth eeks out. She's backhandedly complimenting you; but probably doesn't trust herself enough to to trust you to let you in.
The lady doth protest too much, methinks....and all that stuff.
So, the bigger question is- what are you going to do about it? This passive agressive bloodsport of a relationship the two of you have going on will be fun for a little while, until someone's heart gets broken.