I probably shouldn't be telling you this when you're drunk, but it looks like you have two choices. You can either sleep with him or get over him. Otherwise you're going to be mooning over him for the rest of your life (or a very, very long time) and that's going to impact hunting for artifacts. If age matters that much to you, get over him. If you decide you'd rather go with your feelings, then just do it.
I can't believe I just told you to sleep with a 16 year old. If you remember this conversation tomorrow I will deny all of it.