For the sake of others than her, there can be no tolerance for any disrespect for the sanctity of this space.
I will make no more exceptions for him than I do for the enraged men who come seeking their battered wives, or the corrupt agents of law who come seeking those whose crimes are of nonconformity.
You of all people must understand the urgency of panic and protection that is a reaction to anything that is even an implied threat to the safety of yourself or one you love.