I might have had it if it weren't for the fact that someone has decided their pain is so great, they have to inflict it on the world. When your life falls apart, and you fall apart with it, it only shows that you're weak and stupid. I don't care if you've just seen your entire family destroyed brutally, you don't go around makin' life hell for anyone who even exists.
I don't care what happened, I just want them to stop. You want sympathy, act sympathetic.