Leia still had no idea what to make of the idea that she willingly named a son of hers Anakin, but she didn't say so. "And there weren't any issues?" she ventured carefully. She poked at her salad before taking a bite. Then she sighed. She felt like an outsider, and she never liked that. She sat up a little straighter and cleared her throat a little bit, not knowing how to take part in the conversation. Decades of experience in politics and here she was, sitting with a man who was almost her husband and a man who wasn't her son (but was at the same time), and she didn't know what to say.
"Han, I'm curious," she said, looking between them. "Or Jacen, you could answer as well. When were you born?" Where was the difference? Why did this Han and his Leia have twins and she and her Han only had Ben?