beobscene (beobscene) wrote in thegrand_ic, @ 2012-08-08 15:38:00 |
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Entry tags: | jean-auguste charbonneau, sasha graham |
Who Jean-Auguste and Sasha
What Aim chat about having an epic date and actually opening up and sharing, getting personal, a misunderstanding, and quick poof reveal into the owl's room to prove he was an angel
Warning Rated Mature for immaturity. and LONG - timestamps from 4:20pm to 3:353am - UM wow.
Status Complete
(4:20:28 PM) sashagivesahoot: Ring-a-ding-ding.
(4:21:34 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: this isn't a ding dong ditch is it?
(4:21:52 PM) Sasha Graham: Nope, still here with a bag of dog poo and a lighter.
(4:21:53 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: if so I'll jump on my dirt bike and chase you down
(4:22:05 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: that's acceptable
(4:22:10 PM) Sasha Graham: Very well.
(4:22:30 PM) Sasha Graham: so, Jean-Auguste. That's very... French. Like a French model. are you a model?
(4:24:03 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: No. But I am far more exciting. But I am French. Actually that's where my current crib is. But I'm trading it in for the street slumming
(4:24:26 PM) Sasha Graham: hot damn. Why are you in Boston?
(4:24:40 PM) Sasha Graham: Oh, by the way, I'm Sasha, and this is my screen name, and this is my [phone number].
(4:24:55 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I wondered if I was going to get one back.
(4:25:06 PM) Sasha Graham: You can send all licks and dick pics and stuff to that number there.
(4:25:12 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: but the prophecy of the lick vision was way too strong
(4:25:17 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I totally had faith
(4:25:28 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I will. expect them
(4:25:35 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I do that
(4:25:45 PM) Sasha Graham: I will ready my inbox. It might explode.
(4:25:50 PM) Sasha Graham: Do you have an accent?
(4:26:16 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: Also, I'm in boston because my Dad owns a business here. and yes I do. It keeps being pointed out
(4:26:33 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I have heard that
(4:26:34 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I
(4:26:43 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: surprise people
(4:27:02 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: because they don't expect the voice that comes from my mouth to come out of a face like mine
(4:27:06 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: so I've heard
(4:27:16 PM) Sasha Graham: Why, is it like Pepe le Pew?
(4:28:25 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: Pepe le Pew is hot. I hope that's not a Pepe dog dood. HA. I totally have his swag.
(4:29:16 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: sometimes cats just need a little patience and lovin' before they realize how awesome you are
(4:29:22 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I'm suscpecting
(4:29:23 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: that
(4:29:28 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: it's a case of
(4:29:43 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: not being able to contain their own self worth
(4:29:46 PM) Sasha Graham: Or you can just, you know. Molest them like Pepe.
(4:29:51 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: like man. he is too hot for me.
(4:29:56 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: one of those kind of things
(4:30:05 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: Yeah. it happens
(4:30:09 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: NO. fuck.
(4:30:13 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: LOLOL
(4:30:38 PM) Sasha Graham: that's right! Molestation happens. Bring it on.
(4:31:23 PM) Sasha Graham: So, you dad has a business here. And you are... visiting? Or do you live with him? Please don't be underage.
(4:33:21 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I am 21. I am going to move here after I deal with my paperwork overseas and get out of my lease properly. I've been on summer break from college. But, I'm not going back. I have other education I'm doing anyway. and yeah, he owns the Laser Arcade. The Jubilee. you heard of it?
(4:34:14 PM) Sasha Graham: Fuck yeah I've heard of it. Best laser tag this side of ever.
(4:34:35 PM) Sasha Graham: And thank god. that's like all my career needs, right. Hey twitter, kickin it with some jailbait hottie. Got him to say "oui oui".
(4:35:25 PM) Sasha Graham: So what's other education mean? you transferring?
(4:36:37 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: oui oui? HAHA. last time that popped outta my mouth the dude called me his little piggy.
(4:36:47 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I wasn't sure I liked that.
(4:36:48 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: Then
(4:37:05 PM) Sasha Graham: What?! Wow, that's class right there.
(4:37:11 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I was all fuck it. Toss me in some mud and lets play
(4:37:27 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: yeah right?! lol
(4:37:41 PM) Sasha Graham: Ouch, hold on, my eyebrow just hit the roof.
(4:38:54 PM) Sasha Graham: Hm. Yeah okay. that could be cool.
(4:39:00 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: is that a good hit or bad hit?
(4:39:18 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: HA. it was cool by then
(4:39:27 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: throws caution to the wind
(4:39:30 PM) Sasha Graham: You managed to surprise me, but that's funny.
(4:40:10 PM) Sasha Graham: I am not normally surprised by anything. My bros can attest to that. I'm the perv. they take to calling me "Chester the jester" cause they don't know I'm serious.
(4:40:45 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: That's cute man. But it seemed logical to me at that point.
(4:41:11 PM) Sasha Graham: Was he hot?
(4:42:30 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: Yeah, fucker. He earned too many brownie points for cleverness too. He was athlete so he was putting blue ribbons on me.
(4:42:53 PM) Sasha Graham: Mmh, athletes. Meh. But alright, if he was hot I concur with your logic.
(4:43:12 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: He was a pro-boarder.
(4:43:24 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I like x-treme sports
(4:43:33 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I can't do shit like...
(4:43:38 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: oh football or baseball
(4:43:44 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: or other team sports
(4:43:48 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: but stuff like
(4:44:09 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: blades, boards, bikes, and big boy toys... I'm on it
(4:44:40 PM) Sasha Graham: Sounds good to me, Pepe. I could get on board with that. I don't do team sports either. I prefer to fly solo.
(4:45:05 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I'll toss you the KY anytime you're in that position
(4:45:09 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: hehe
(4:45:32 PM) Sasha Graham: Wanna be the referee, eh? You are cute in black stripes as far as I can tell.
(4:46:23 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: As long as I can wear a whistle.
(4:46:44 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: and I like my black paint. it's my war paint
(4:46:47 PM) Sasha Graham: You can even blow it if you want to.
(4:46:55 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: oh i will
(4:47:06 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: getting the whistle to blow is the whole point
(4:47:09 PM) Sasha Graham: You make sure you make every call.
(4:48:54 PM) Sasha Graham: Yeah, you do that. I'll give you a real medal to wear.
(4:49:07 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: a real medal?
(4:49:30 PM) Sasha Graham: Yep, right on your chest.
(4:50:48 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: The spot graced for champions
(4:51:18 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: oh. sorry brain revert I missed your old question
(4:51:39 PM) Sasha Graham: It's cool, honey.
(4:51:41 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I'm in an explosives academy
(4:51:48 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: you asked about my education
(4:51:58 PM) Sasha Graham: Whoa, wait. So you make things blow up for a living. For real.
(4:52:11 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I don't have a job, but yeah. that's what I like to do
(4:52:19 PM) Sasha Graham: Daaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaamn.
(4:52:50 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I thought for awhile I'd be that dude that comes in and diffuses the bomb and saves all the people in the military
(4:53:05 PM) Sasha Graham: Yeah? What changed?
(4:53:24 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I think I just don't car about the military.
(4:53:27 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: care*
(4:53:48 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: but I do want to keep heading in other directions with it
(4:54:14 PM) Sasha Graham: Like what?
(4:55:21 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: maybe something that doesn't take control of my life like the military does. I want to choose where I go
(4:55:40 PM) Sasha Graham: Yeah, makes sense. I can relate.
(4:57:12 PM) Sasha Graham: I graduated as a sound tech, but I didn't want to get stuck with my thumb up my ass in the back of some theater, so I went on tour with this band for about a year. Nobody awesome, but it was a job and I saw the whole US. I came back to hang out with my family maybe 5 months ago or so. My bros and I are putting the old gig back together.
(4:57:28 PM) Sasha Graham: I'm supposed to sing for a cover of "Gay Bar", that's our current thing. I can't wait.
(4:58:42 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: That's cool. One of best friends is a sound tech. er. was. until the house of blues blew up.
(4:58:54 PM) Sasha Graham: Oh shit... didn't make it?
(4:59:11 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: no he was the guy that made it. I'm staying in his house right now
(4:59:30 PM) Sasha Graham: Oh, seriously? Lucky for him.
(5:00:55 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: yeah. He's taking a break before his tour. Seiji's in here though. I don't think Seiji realizes I'm a permanent fixture yet. Should be interesting. There's a studio in here. But I don't know how to use all this equipment.
(5:01:00 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: but I play with it
(5:01:14 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: and I am so coming to hear you sing
(5:01:17 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: Gay Bar
(5:01:21 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I have to
(5:01:30 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: there's no way I'm not
(5:03:54 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: do you guys have any gigs soon?
(5:11:58 PM) Sasha Graham: It's an awesome. I don't know though, I'm going to have to ask my bro what our next date is. probably won't be for a while. I could give you a private show though, I think.
(5:12:06 PM) Sasha Graham: And you know Seiji?
(5:12:13 PM) Sasha Graham: Like, the Seiji that is in Boston right now?
(5:14:17 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: Yeah him, his mansion burnt down one day, so he moved into Chess's place. He just doesn't realize he's about to have a roommate. Chess is cool that way. But, Seiji's cool. He won't care. The place is big enough for both of us. And besides that, Chess is used to place being over run with partiers. He doesn't like it being empty.
(5:14:35 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: But a private show would hot. I'll shove bills down your pants and everything
(5:15:01 PM) Sasha Graham: is Chess the same guy from HoB? because I swear to god I know him too. this is nuts, how do you know everyone I know?
(5:15:14 PM) Sasha Graham: But dammit, is Chess okay? I'm just now looking through the news.
(5:15:18 PM) Sasha Graham: that's just.
(5:15:24 PM) Sasha Graham: I have to go see him. I can't believe it.
(5:15:36 PM) Sasha Graham: I hope he's okay. We knew each other a while back from tech work. haven't talked to him in ages though.
(5:15:43 PM) Sasha Graham: And I met Seiji online and we hung out in a bar once.
(5:15:57 PM) Sasha Graham: Sounds like he's been busy. I was wondering.
(5:16:24 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: He's ok man. We're close. I just... I know it's hard for him to be back in the party place and think about touring sober. He's been in a life reevalution mode or something
(5:16:31 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: But he's 30
(5:16:34 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: so
(5:16:44 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: remind me not to have a midlife crisis at 30
(5:17:04 PM) Sasha Graham: Yeah I'm not surprised. Boy was hardcore. I mean we all did crazy stupid shit but.
(5:17:23 PM) Sasha Graham: That's good, though. He always wanted more than what he got handed.
(5:18:09 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: yeah, he did. he got some boyfriend that managed to kick his ass outta the dark cloud of brain or something.
(5:18:13 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: also remind me
(5:18:24 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: to never need anyone else to keep my brain outta darkness
(5:18:45 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: co-dependency is hard to watch
(5:18:47 PM) Sasha Graham: Hey, it can just be like that. You know? You can't see your own hand in front of your face. It's not wrong to need help.
(5:19:08 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: Yeah, I know. It is. I know all too well actually
(5:19:15 PM) Sasha Graham: Oh yeah?
(5:19:55 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: yeah, I think I'm a lost soul detector. I like to help people. I guess cause I know what it's like to need help.
(5:20:22 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: either way. you owe me a date
(5:20:34 PM) Sasha Graham: that's sweet.
(5:20:38 PM) Sasha Graham: And yeah, so I do.
(5:20:59 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: not just a date
(5:21:04 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: an epic date
(5:21:09 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: if I recall correctly
(5:23:08 PM) Sasha Graham: That's right. I wouldn't want to disappoint. I've been thinking on it, really. No plain old wine and dine would do for you, I think. You like it X-treme.
(5:23:48 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I do. And besides I get the wine and cheeze bit all the time at the French Cultural Center
(5:23:58 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: they do a lot of tastings
(5:24:25 PM) Sasha Graham: Ha, you really like that kind of place, being from France? I wondered if places like that are even authentic. Surely you don't sit around eating cheese at home.
(5:24:41 PM) Sasha Graham: Unless you're like the rest of us and you're all squirting easy cheese into your mouth in front of the tv.
(5:25:55 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: they try to bring the europeans that are here in boston together. Boston itself has a lot of French heritage. but us foreignors, (I mean I'm not even a citizen here ya know?) we do sit back sometimes and point at what's off. But it's authentic enough
(5:26:59 PM) Sasha Graham: Yeah, now that you bring it on around like that. I think that just makes you more hot, really. I wouldn't mind seeing that, the lot of you sitting around oui oui-ing about the poor quality of American cheese.
(5:27:42 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I'll sit with you in front of the tube anytime tho and draw can cheeze staches on you
(5:28:11 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: might even lick them off trying to hold a straight face
(5:28:18 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: not sure it can be done
(5:28:24 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: challenge timez
(5:28:30 PM) Sasha Graham: I approve. Absolutely what the company intended for their product.
(5:28:54 PM) Sasha Graham: and you are just ridiculous. Where the fuck have you been all my life?
(5:29:08 PM) Sasha Graham: Alright, this challenge just got real. I gotta show you something really, really epic.
(5:29:35 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: heaven dude. I'm sent from above.
(5:29:48 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I fall into peoples laps and they pray name
(5:29:52 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: my name
(5:30:02 PM) Sasha Graham: I was gonna say that's probably the only option, since Santa isn't coming for a few months.
(5:30:19 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I bet I could squeeze down a chimney tho
(5:30:40 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: why have I not tried this before
(5:30:51 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: doing that too
(5:30:56 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: the list is getting longer
(5:32:44 PM) Sasha Graham: I hope you're keeping good records.
(5:33:25 PM) Sasha Graham: Alright, Frenchie. You like to make fun of Americans? How about adding MOBA onto that list somewhere? http://www.museumofbadart.org/
(5:34:35 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: HAHA. That's funny. I gotta see that. I went on that walking tour here of all the city art but this is fantabulous
(5:35:25 PM) Sasha Graham: Followed by this for dessert http://www.sweet-n-nasty.com/store/inde
(5:36:21 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: ok first off, the key for the chocolate handcuffs always break before they turn to unlock
(5:36:25 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I cry foul
(5:36:48 PM) Sasha Graham: that's when you just have to start eating.
(5:41:04 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: where are we going on this epic date?
(5:41:24 PM) Sasha Graham: Hey, can't rush perfection.
(5:41:28 PM) Sasha Graham: I'll tell you when I tell you.
(5:44:56 PM) Sasha Graham: In the meantime, why don't you inspire me? Tell me some more about you.
(5:47:43 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: Ok. Well, I'm a triplet. I'm the middle kid. people usually think that's interesting.
(5:47:53 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: the first thing asked is OMG there's more of you
(5:47:56 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: no
(5:48:00 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: only one me
(5:48:19 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: the original. fraternal
(5:48:54 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I have a sister and a brother.
(5:49:28 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: so don't start the double mint twins comments. HAHA. people always try
(5:51:35 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: http://img.photobucket.com/albums/1
(5:51:37 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: and
(5:52:07 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: you see we are not identical. I live with him in paris. This is the first time we'll be apart
(5:52:13 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: well
(5:52:15 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: sort of
(5:52:17 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: you know
(5:52:26 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: we're not attached at the hip or something
(5:52:54 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: OH I know what I should show you
(5:57:11 PM) Sasha Graham: Triplets, huh?
(5:57:36 PM) Sasha Graham: You all look alike anyway, though. Really close, actually. I can tell.
(5:57:43 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: http://img.photobucket.com/albums/1
(5:58:39 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: Im big on mudding
(5:58:45 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: and four wheelers.
(5:59:56 PM) Sasha Graham: Aw, that bat's adorable.
(6:00:01 PM) Sasha Graham: but WOW those are some big trucks.
(6:00:08 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: :D
(6:00:09 PM) Sasha Graham: where do you four-wheel?
(6:00:26 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I grew up on a farm
(6:00:45 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: one with horses and vinyards and orchards and all the like
(6:00:57 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: Dad liked to make his own wine
(6:01:11 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: and he let me taste it when Papa wasn't looking
(6:01:30 PM) Sasha Graham: I thought all Europeans drank wine as kids.
(6:01:36 PM) Sasha Graham: that's not like a thing?
(6:02:13 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: no. well not exactly. that's sort of a myth.
(6:02:57 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: they have a legal drinking age there just like everyplace else
(6:03:13 PM) Sasha Graham: Ah, well. Fine, ruin my image. Hahah
(6:03:57 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: but tradition and heritage are yet another thing of course
(6:04:00 PM) Sasha Graham: Sounds amazing though. That must have been, just something else.
(6:04:16 PM) Sasha Graham: You're really big on your heritage?
(6:05:17 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: yeah, and actually it is younger. they recently raised it I think though
(6:05:29 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: it was 16 it might be 18 now
(6:05:42 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: but I am
(6:05:44 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I guess
(6:05:46 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I mean
(6:05:53 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I live there. it's just what I know
(6:06:14 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: that or Italy. Dad used to drag us to Venice alot
(6:07:09 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: Papa is French and Dad is Italian
(6:07:10 PM) Sasha Graham: Ah yeah? That's not too far, is it? I hear it's easier to get places around Europe. Why Venice?
(6:07:13 PM) Sasha Graham: Ohhhh.
(6:07:19 PM) Sasha Graham: So you're both. That's a hell of a combination.
(6:07:47 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: no. it's not far. That's why people can backpack all over Europe. the countries are really small and close together
(6:07:49 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: and NO
(6:07:52 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: well
(6:07:54 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: yes
(6:07:57 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I mean.
(6:08:02 PM) Sasha Graham: No...?
(6:08:21 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: Ya know, I just meant, genetically speaking
(6:08:28 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I have two fathers
(6:08:37 PM) Sasha Graham: Oh... right, right.
(6:08:39 PM) Sasha Graham: I'm sorry.
(6:08:44 PM) Sasha Graham: Did I offend?
(6:08:50 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: no. not at all.
(6:09:20 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I mean my Dad was the shake donor I guess. the italian one.
(6:09:26 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: But we all lived in France so
(6:09:42 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: And Papa is pretty proud of his heritage
(6:09:50 PM) Sasha Graham: Hey, it's cool. You are what you feel. After that, what's it matter?
(6:10:01 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: He was in the French military.
(6:10:17 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: and yeah. I think I feel French. It's where I was raised so yeah
(6:10:36 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: But Dad is all about running us to Italy come festival time
(6:10:38 PM) Sasha Graham: Haha, you have a military dad? Is he strict?
(6:10:45 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: He's...
(6:11:26 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: strict. but not. It's hard to explain. I mean I ran around a farm with monster trucks and four wheelers
(6:11:32 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: that's not so strict
(6:11:38 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: But
(6:12:10 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: He's definitely in charge
(6:12:22 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: Head of the household.
(6:12:41 PM) Sasha Graham: Mmm.
(6:12:54 PM) Sasha Graham: That must have been kind of nice. Someone looking out for you.
(6:12:57 PM) Sasha Graham: Sorry...
(6:13:03 PM) Sasha Graham: If I sound kind of like a sap.
(6:13:06 PM) Sasha Graham: I don't have parents.
(6:14:00 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: yeah we all felt safe enough I guess.
(6:14:13 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: a tight hold can squeeze the life out of you though
(6:14:25 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: even if it's out of love
(6:14:33 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: but, mmmm
(6:14:36 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: sorry
(6:14:41 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: no you don't
(6:14:48 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: what's your story?
(6:19:05 PM) Sasha Graham: eh... I grew up in a home. Never really know why you're there or where you might have been if you hadn't been dumped off. I got four brothers as we say out of it but after that we were pretty much on our own, with everything five boys can get into. It was pretty rough at times. We had a bit of a split a while back. I went to college and then on tour, another one of my bros joined the army... just, shit.
(6:19:26 PM) Sasha Graham: We're all back now, but it's like one thing after another.
(6:20:21 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: that's surviving Sasha. life never quits tossing shit at you. it comes down to what you do with it
(6:22:29 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: but I'm starting to realize that being apart from your siblings and I'm sure its gotta be the same whether its blood or not. but space is good. it allows everyone to branch out for their own purpose. you just have to make sure to keep coming back together to bitch about how its' going wrong with each other
(6:22:31 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: heh
(6:23:12 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: it helps motivate you to gear up for your next time out
(6:23:27 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: with a new fuel behind ya. like a power source
(6:23:37 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: maybe that's just me
(6:23:41 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: but that's what I think
(6:37:26 PM) Sasha Graham: Maybe. the trouble with it is, once you take the plunge nothing is ever the same again. You're about to go off on your own for the first time? You'll see. Sometimes what you find out there is better than what you had, but there are times too when it just feels like you lost something, so you have to weigh it carefully. I mean, like, I wouldn't change for the world the fact that I went to college. It's let me get ahead in life and all that. But it's also made a bunch of us realize that we can't have the same kind of relationship we used to have as kids. We have to be adult brothers now. Other people are going to come into our lives. It's weird, but... what are you going to do?
(6:38:41 PM) Sasha Graham: I have to say I envy my bro taj in a way. He has someone he loves now, as does my bro Kareem, and the rest of us are just sort of alone still. It makes things... mm... like half of us are still kids and the other half are adults and it causes shit.
(6:39:23 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: Taj has someone he loves?
(6:39:32 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I thought Casper got kicked out?
(6:39:49 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: sorry. are you talking about Taj Bahar?
(6:40:03 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: Kareem?
(6:40:13 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: Kareem who manages the Jubilee?
(6:40:25 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: My Dad's place?
(6:40:38 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: The names are catching me like what
(6:57:17 PM) Sasha Graham: Haa, you know my bros? That's great. I'm gonna ask them if they know you and what they think of you.
(6:57:25 PM) Sasha Graham: Yeah, Taj Bahar, and Kareem Okonkwo.
(6:57:50 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I never met Kareem, but I seen him working when I pass through my Dad's place
(6:58:06 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: Dad talks about him
(6:58:11 PM) Sasha Graham: Taj and Casper, I have no idea. But I think he really matters to him, so despite what anybody else may think, I've been behind them. Kareem is all cozy with this fine dude named Dana. Now he's doing good for himself, but now we hardly see him. that's the down side.
(6:58:27 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: Yeah I know about that too
(6:58:38 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: Kareem and Dana I mean
(6:58:46 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: Dana's a family friend
(6:58:48 PM) Sasha Graham: Yeah. it's hard /not/ to notice Dana.
(6:58:51 PM) Sasha Graham: If you know what I mean.
(6:58:56 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: yeahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. I do
(7:00:07 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: but besides France and Italy and America I had one road trip out to the Czech Repulic. That's all I've really been to
(7:00:17 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: Republic
(7:00:51 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: where have you been?
(7:12:17 PM) Sasha Graham: Ohhh, man. Lemme see. When i was on tour I was in like, New York, Pennsylvania, Colorado, California, Nevada - that was cool. I liked Nevada and Arizona. One stop in Missouri. two in Florida. then back up the coast to Boston.
(7:12:31 PM) Sasha Graham: bunch of places in between too. it took the better part of a year.
(7:12:45 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: ah. from the whole sound tech thing
(7:12:54 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: ?
(7:13:00 PM) Sasha Graham: That was the only time I ever got to travel. before that, I was a ward of the state... so yeah.
(7:14:11 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: that must have been exciting on tour though
(7:14:44 PM) Sasha Graham: oh it was. I'd do it again in an instant, but next time I hope it's with my own band. I do a lot of composing and electronic stuff, but it's another thing to find the right people to fill it out.
(7:15:11 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: you like techno?
(7:15:26 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: electronica?
(7:15:36 PM) Sasha Graham: Hey, just because it's electronic doesn't mean its techno.
(7:15:46 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: well duh. Im just asking
(7:15:47 PM) Sasha Graham: It's alright though. I listen to damn well enough house music in the clubs.
(7:16:13 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: cool. cool. what's your love on the music scene then?
(7:16:52 PM) Sasha Graham: ROCK, punk, it's gotta be hard. I like music with guts.
(7:17:41 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: haha. what about screamo shit? the only reason I even went on that trip to the czech was to catch the Obscene Extreme Festival
(7:18:09 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: It's a european rock musica thing
(7:19:43 PM) Sasha Graham: I don't mind it. I'm not some kind of elitist who's going to sit here and bash the new bands just because they're not like the old shit and they're full of teenagers. that's what happens.
(7:20:56 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: yeah. I here ya.
(7:20:58 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: hear
(7:22:24 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I grew up listening to a lot of French Rock Bands. But they're limited to audience not singing in English. But, we used to run to the 11th District all the time to catch live shows. Me and my friends
(7:22:45 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: Um, France is sectioned off into districts
(7:23:03 PM) Sasha Graham: Not singing in english doesn't matter any. I like Italian rock. Lacuna Coil.
(7:23:26 PM) Sasha Graham: A lot of foreign bands still sing in English though.
(7:23:34 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: It does tho. It takes a lot to breech the ocean.
(7:23:39 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: and get famous over here
(7:23:44 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: not in english
(7:23:58 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: and yeah they do. those are the ones that usually make it
(7:24:07 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: if they're willing to do some in both
(7:24:52 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: but you know
(7:24:58 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: the coolest thing to do
(7:25:20 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: just happens to be turning on music - actually choreographing explosions
(7:25:35 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: like fireworks displays
(7:25:43 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I do that.
(7:25:57 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: but I keep thinking I want to try it with hilltops
(7:27:06 PM) Sasha Graham: Ah, so you want to be a pyro?
(7:27:52 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: want to be? Idk. does that make me one already? not sure. I just really like the anticipation
(7:28:00 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: before pressing the button
(7:28:13 PM) Sasha Graham: Hah, I mean a pyrotechnician.
(7:29:17 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: hahahaha. maybe. but no. I do like to do that. I'd be great at that I'm sure. I just figured I'd use it for helping. But then again... One great rock show can change the world
(7:30:01 PM) Sasha Graham: Fuck yeah it can. You're not just feeding people for a day, you're feeding their souls for a lifetime man.
(7:31:59 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: there's a lot of punk festivals in europe
(7:32:46 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: if I wasn't in class that's more like where me and my friends would hang for special events. that or out in district 11
(7:33:14 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: my brother is on tour with a circus right now
(7:33:42 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I keep meaning to ask him if he ever gets on stage
(7:33:45 PM) Sasha Graham: Haa, really? Your bro is with the circus?
(7:34:11 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: he's hanging around some guy who is. and living roadie in his RV
(7:34:28 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I dont think I could hang out around carnies without trying to jump on stage
(7:34:38 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: and do something
(7:35:32 PM) Sasha Graham: Ohhhhh. Yeah, find out if he is. I bet that's a riot. So are you two a lot alike? If he likes carnies and you like explosions.
(7:37:06 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I don't know. we're kind of different. He was smaller than me as kids. the parentals kept a my-little-baby watch on him. I think he's just now learning to spread some wings he didn't get to. It must have sucked watching me do stuff.
(7:37:30 PM) Sasha Graham: But you guys are the same age?
(7:37:42 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: yeah of course. we're triplets.
(7:37:54 PM) Sasha Graham: So why couldn't he do stuff with you?
(7:38:40 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: just smaller and weaker and some insane parent thing. idk. he was just babied from being the youngest
(7:38:44 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: or smallest
(7:38:48 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: more like
(7:39:24 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: plus personality
(7:39:30 PM) Sasha Graham: Ohhhh. Well maybe he needs to take some lessons from me. I have a secret. I'm 5'3", I'm not lying. But I've done so much shit.
(7:39:36 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I just did whatever I wanted. I was more bold
(7:39:51 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: you're not short
(7:39:57 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: you're fun size
(7:40:01 PM) Sasha Graham: I don't even stand like up to the shoulders of somedudes but I'm like whatever. Come down here, I'll bite your ankles.
(7:40:31 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: hot. haha. shorter can be better anyway. especially in x-treme sports
(7:40:53 PM) Sasha Graham: but I was the smallest in my group too and none of my brothers would mess with me. Not even our big badass marine. He knows better.
(7:41:28 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: like when me and this dude went to Hagueneau to the skate bowl he could fit under railings I couldn't have got under if I turned myself into slinky
(7:41:33 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: and hahaha.
(7:41:42 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: that's what I mean. personality does it
(7:41:46 PM) Sasha Graham: Why, how tall are you?
(7:42:12 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: 6 2
(7:42:19 PM) Sasha Graham: And I'd totally do that. you like sneaking in places? I'm a master. I could fit into a shoebox space if I wanted to.
(7:42:29 PM) Sasha Graham: Hoooooooly.
(7:42:42 PM) Sasha Graham: You're like a walking that's what she said joke.
(7:43:04 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: hahaha
(7:43:14 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I want to see you fit in a shoebox now
(7:43:26 PM) Sasha Graham: Heh... maybe I'll show you. We'll see.
(7:44:34 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: it's on the list
(7:46:40 PM) Sasha Graham: Maybe. I only show my super special tricks to super special people.
(7:48:32 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: =-O guess we'll see then. I hold the same philosophy anyway.
(7:49:27 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: you ever have a moment where you can't turn a damn song off
(7:49:37 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: and you start telling yourself
(7:49:40 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: just stop now
(7:49:44 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: but can't
(7:49:50 PM) Sasha Graham: Sure do, then I hit the panic button on my keyboard.
(7:50:34 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: hmmm. I don't play very well though. My Dad tried to teach me piano. I didn't sit down in one spot to concentrate very well when I was smaller
(7:51:03 PM) Sasha Graham: People who can't sit still become drummers.
(7:51:10 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: never tried it
(7:51:41 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I was homeschooled for awhile
(7:51:48 PM) Sasha Graham: Really?
(7:51:53 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: then I was sent to Catholic school
(7:52:05 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: and yeah
(7:52:11 PM) Sasha Graham: Ohhhohoho Catholic schoolboy, eh?
(7:52:14 PM) Sasha Graham: With a uniform and everything?
(7:52:24 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: yes uniform and everything
(7:52:31 PM) Sasha Graham: Now this I want to see.
(7:52:57 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m8ayl
(7:53:12 PM) Sasha Graham: Are you still a Catholic?
(7:53:49 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: ehhhhhhh. I don't like to say so exactly. no.
(7:53:50 PM) Sasha Graham: Hm, hey. you look cute in a suit. I bet the churchmarms just love the hair though.
(7:53:59 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I do still go sometimes
(7:54:26 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: and thanks.
(7:54:35 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: My sister always sang
(7:55:04 PM) Sasha Graham: Oh, does she? Like in the choir?
(7:55:31 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: yeah, in the choir, but she'd make free CD's too and pass them out
(7:55:43 PM) Sasha Graham: Cool, can I have a copy? Would she mind?
(7:55:48 PM) Sasha Graham: I'm just always curious.
(7:55:52 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: yeah. I don't see why not
(7:55:58 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: she gives them to everyone
(7:57:03 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: if you know Chess and Seiji though, we should all hang
(7:57:13 PM) Sasha Graham: Awesome, thanks! Is your sister into music or what does she do?
(7:57:27 PM) Sasha Graham: and yeah, absolutely. We really should. i need to see Chess, it's been too long.
(7:58:01 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: doesn't surprise me about Chess though. He's not really wanted to be seen
(7:58:14 PM) Sasha Graham: sounds like it.
(7:58:22 PM) Sasha Graham: but he has to sooner or later.
(7:58:23 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: and my sister goes to an art school in paris
(7:58:29 PM) Sasha Graham: Accept my well-wishes or else! buahaha
(7:58:40 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: kick those wishes and rub them in
(7:59:21 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: she does almost everything from photography, drawing, graphic, music. she's just so artistic I'm not sure she knows where to hone in on yet
(7:59:54 PM) Sasha Graham: Makes sense. if you have a lot of talents it might take time to figure out how to put them all together.
(8:00:22 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: yeah she's super talented. I dont think she should limit herself to one
(8:00:50 PM) Sasha Graham: Most art's freelance anyway so it's not like she has to go get a corporate job if she doesn't want to.
(8:01:23 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: is it? I don't really know. I just know if you want something awesome she's the go-to gal
(8:01:46 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: she designed several of my tattoos
(8:12:21 PM) Sasha Graham: Ah, sweet. what are your tattoos of?
(8:13:24 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: um I think I have way too many to sit here and list cuz I have almost 2 whole sleeves now. but either way I still think my first few are still my favorites
(8:14:03 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: http://img.photobucket.com/albums/1
(8:14:27 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: it will always be my favorite
(8:16:16 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: do you know anything about animal totems?
(8:17:26 PM) Sasha Graham: Some. I know about my own. Dragonfly, huh? that's for things like light and change?
(8:19:02 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: sort of yeah. a deeper mind. they say dragon flies have the power to flit between realms between reality and fairies or heaven. it also is the animal that might show up when you're being too serious and it's time to have fun
(8:19:24 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: remind you of something lighter hearted
(8:20:18 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: to live to the fullest
(8:20:50 PM) Sasha Graham: Right, sounds like a good philosophy. So what does that mean to you personally?
(8:21:27 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: um, alot. hmmm. you see those words in script next to it
(8:21:51 PM) Sasha Graham: Yeah, what's that say? You look like you've been having a bit too much fun. ;)
(8:21:51 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: it says. photograph each day so we can live forever
(8:22:18 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: hahaha. I think I could use some. sometimes my life gets heavier than people see on the surface
(8:22:26 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: family stuff
(8:22:48 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: it the lyrics to an automatic love letter song
(8:22:55 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I've adopted it as my themesong
(8:23:05 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8m0S_MOv
(8:23:08 PM) Sasha Graham: Hmmm.
(8:23:14 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: http://www.lyricsmania.com/unhearted_ly
(8:23:31 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: do you ever try to figure out what you're own theme song would be?
(8:23:47 PM) Sasha Graham: Sometimes, but I can't really choose one just yet.
(8:23:50 PM) Sasha Graham: but, Jean.
(8:24:01 PM) Sasha Graham: I know exactly what we should do.
(8:24:22 PM) Sasha Graham: Let's make some light in our lives. I haven't done this since I was a kid.
(8:24:52 PM) Sasha Graham: Strobe lights, disco lights, party lights, you name it. Bad music, bruises, greasy food.
(8:24:53 PM) Sasha Graham: yes.
(8:24:58 PM) Sasha Graham: this should, in fact be epic.
(8:25:02 PM) Sasha Graham: Let's go skating!
(8:32:43 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: skating. *raises brow* I am going to Mathias Silhan all over that rinks' roll.
(8:33:03 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I'll wear my Razors
(8:33:38 PM) Sasha Graham: Ohho, did I accidentally pick something you're familiar with? I can dig deeper into the depths of dorkdom.
(8:34:23 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I wear the blade crown 'round my parts.
(8:35:05 PM) Sasha Graham: Hmmm. That might be worth seeing, especially when you're trying to do it to the beat of Nicki Minaj or something.
(8:36:21 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I'm rocking in with my 55mm's. And we'll flog the DJ with requests
(8:37:04 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: Have you seen Mathis Silhan. I've seen him
(8:37:06 PM) Sasha Graham: Sounds like a plan to me. Let's see how many times we can ask for stuff he hasn't heard of.
(8:37:23 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: HA. I'd confuse these Americanos
(8:37:28 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: if I got started
(8:38:09 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I'll take you to the East Boston Skate Park sometime
(8:38:19 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: They have ramps and stuff
(8:38:58 PM) Sasha Graham: that sounds like a blast.
(8:38:58 PM) Sasha Graham: but.
(8:39:18 PM) Sasha Graham: Tell me something you don't know how to do. I want to see you at a disadvantage one of these days.
(8:42:11 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: well you'll have to get me outside the x-world
(8:42:55 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: http://www.rollernews.com/bowl-in-hague
(8:42:59 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: damn
(8:43:02 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I've been there
(8:43:09 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: been on the same course
(8:43:21 PM) Sasha Graham: Let me see. Outside the x world.
(8:43:24 PM) Sasha Graham: that makes me think of x-men.
(8:43:36 PM) Sasha Graham: Ever been to a Sci-Fi Convention?
(8:44:40 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: can't say I have. But I do like comics
(8:46:30 PM) Sasha Graham: Bingo. And I'm dressing as Yoda. I do that every year.
(8:46:51 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: cool then. I'll do it.
(8:47:04 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: I need a costume
(8:47:16 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: this is the kind of thing I get my sister in on
(8:47:36 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: she and my dad are are awesome with costumes
(8:47:46 PM) JudgeGatesofSyn: halloweens were huge at my house
(8:48:19 PM) Sasha Graham: Ohhh, a costume. Well you like comics. What are you into?