Did you talk to Terry at all before you made that decision? Because no matter how much he would have fought you, and I know he would have and I don't fucking blame him, you don't get to just make decisions about someone else's love life. Your relationship with Terry wasn't just yours, it was his too, and I bet if you two had sat down and put your collective Ravenclaw brains to work on the problem, you would have been able to come up with a solution.
Together.
God knows you don't have all the answers, Michael.