Telepathic Comm: Jean/Rachel
It'll take time, of course. But it'd be really nice if the people who especially wanted you to try would recognize that you are trying and not act in ways that make you want to close off more, right?
Do most of them hate him?
From your perspective, though, he's your husband and she's the woman who had a psychic affair with him during your marriage and isn't that rubbing your face in it? (And I know what it's like to be really not pleased with her for being with Dad. When I came back to the team, I gave her hell.)
Have to admit the idea of you two getting along is almost scary. But it's good.