kitty/kurt.
You're familiar with the Batman comics? You've heard of the villain called 'The Riddler'?
So, you're saying I might've jumped the gun by going out and buying you a wedding gift already?
I kid! I'm such a kidder!
It's good that you're trying it out this way - you would never know, otherwise, and if you didn't try you might have regrets, wondering what it might've been.