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Hermione Jean Granger (granger_danger) wrote in thedisplaced,
@ 2018-02-26 14:52:00

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Ginny Weasley
You wouldn't happen to have a few spare moments soon, would you? ~~I just need~~

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	ginnw 2018-02-27 02:24 pm UTC (link)
	For you I have all the moments. What's going on? (Reply to this) (Thread)

granger_danger
2018-02-27 02:50 pm UTC (link)

I was hoping you’d say that.

It’s a lot, you know?

Ron told me we’re engaged by his time, and he and Harry seemed up think telling me was a scary idea. As though, it would be too much for me. Maybe it is, but not in the way they think.

How did you handle al of this information? I mean, you have children. And they’re here.

And what about crookshanks? And my parents? What if I never see them again?

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ginnw
2018-02-27 03:01 pm UTC (link)

I know. It is a lot.

I don't think they meant any harm, just that it can be complicated telling someone their future. Even if it's good news, you know?

All but Lily Luna now, but I don't know. I was just excited to get to know Albus and learn everything I could about him. The only thing that bothered me, the only thing that does bother me is the fact that both of my children are older than me. I don't have any memory of them, and that's not fair, especially for them.

I can't answer that, there's always a chance your parents will arrive. My parents are here, so is Harry's. There have been people here for a couple of years, but I don't think it's permanent. It might take a couple of years, but I think everyone goes back eventually.

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granger_danger
2018-02-27 04:20 pm UTC (link)

I suppose. I get it. But, Ginny, what if I can’t be the Hermione he wants me to be? That’s overwhelming.

Do you want her to show up? I don’t know how you do that. It doesn’t seem fair. Do you know how they feel about all of it? I’m trying to wrap my head around all of this. I haven’t asked Harry yet about everything. I’ve mostly been reading the books they showed me.

But what happens when you leave? What if I leave and Ron stays? Of what if I stay and Ron leaves? How do you do it over and over again? We build lives here just to have hem taken away?

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ginnw
2018-02-27 04:28 pm UTC (link)

Welcome to the past couple of years for Harry and I. In all seriousness though, I doubt Ron is expecting you to be any different. That's probably why they were hesitant, he wouldn't want to force you to be ready for something you may not be. The first step is to just talk to him.

I do, very badly. It's difficult, but I'm just happy to know them. I guess it's the same for Mum, Dad and I. I was just a baby for them but they don't seem to mind too much. I feel bad for them, but I'm happy to tell them everything I remember.

It's either keep going or let it consume you. Not that it's easy, but what other options are there? The only thing that worries me is if Fred leaves. I'm more worried about what it'll do to George. But at least if were here, we know that he can come back and he'll be alive. It's more than we got back home.

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granger_danger
2018-02-27 05:08 pm UTC (link)

What does that mean, exactly? I know you're right. I just don't want to disappoint him. ~~I don't want to ruin it~~ It's a big change, and somehow seems a little trivial with everything else going on. Almost like I shouldn't be so concerned with this.

For your sake, I hope she does, then. On the bright side, you're all able to share those memories. Too bad there isn't a pensieve here. Might make things a bit easier for everyone. I know it's not the same, but it's something.

That's what worries me. People leaving and people not being [...]</s> okay. We've all been through so much already.

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ginnw
2018-02-27 05:49 pm UTC (link)

Just seems like we're never on the same page. Which it's fine, really, he needs time. We're still friends, obviously. I highly doubt you could ever disappoint him. Maybe but it can't be that surprising you two would end up together, is it?

It's okay to be concerned, I understand what your fears are, that's I suggested talking to him. If anyone's going to understand, it's Ron. The last thing he'll want is force something on you.

Yeah, I enjoy talking to my parents about my childhood, and I'm sure Albus and Jamie feel the same. It's been fun getting to know them.

We have. I don't know, I've heard others say that it's not easy, but it just comes with the territory.

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granger_danger
2018-02-27 06:11 pm UTC (link)

Is that going on here or there? Both? How do you feel about that? Maybe, but I can't imagine it's easy to be ready to marry someone and then have them show up with no memory of it because it hasn't happened for that person yet. I can't say it's a surprise. I wouldn't be with him if I didn't hope for that in our future.

I think I maybe came on a bit strong when he told me about this. Like I wasn't as relaxed as I should have been. I know I should talk to him, and I will. Eventually.

That sounds a bit depressing.

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ginnw
2018-02-27 06:18 pm UTC (link)

Both. We fought from time to time, back home, as I'm sure you remember. We aren't fighting here though, so that's a nice change. If he needs a friend right now, then of course I want to be there as his friend. I still care about him, obviously but it's like with you and Ron. Only difference is that neither of us remember that we eventually marry, we just know because of the kids.

It'll take time, but if you two just take it slow and remain open and honest with each other, it'll be fine.

Is it really all that different from how people live in their daily lives?

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	granger_danger 2018-02-27 06:36 pm UTC (link)
	Everyone fights now and again. At least things seem to work themselves out at home. And it's nice to not be fighting. Do you want things to work out here? It took Ron a lot longer to realize I was a girl. And that he wanted someone like me. I'll have to try and catch him. Maybe not. Probably just seems worse given the circumstances. (Reply to this) (Parent)