The hardest thing i ever had to tell someone..
The hardest thing i ever had to tell someone was that our friendship was over..usually freindships just fade away slowly and you both just stop talking to eachother and it's never officially said that its over..and when you see eachother on the street you still give a smile and wave but that's it....well with this particualr freindship it had to be said that it was over, this person was just unbelievablely tapped in the head as to what friendship is all about, they were selfish, didn't care about your life, they just asked how your lifes been and then you would tell them about it and they would just interrupt you and start talking about their own and when you didn't respond to theirs all hell broke loose but it was ok not to respond to yours??? No, i'm sorry that's not how friendship works..in my opinion, friendship is about listening to one another giving advice if asked for it, being there when they need someone to tell them its gonna be ok or to tell them what they're doing is wrong or stupid but listening to their reply and trying to understand eachother without being ill-mannered about it, and also being there when they need to hear that they're doing something great and wonderful..it's also about being soul connected to where you are apart of them in some way or another and to make life a little easier when it gets hard and lonely....the friend i just recently told our friendship was over to i will not wave or say hi or smile when i see them, i will just give a little nod to the memory of the person they once were at a time when they did express good friendship.