evie never aims to be an asshole until the situation absolutely calls for it and even if it did, she wouldn't use that. (i mean, what the hell?) she hasn't played in a while but she is still very into live gigs. and he'd know some people but colin never got chummy at those parties/houses/clubs. very rarely kept up with anyone. but maybe he knows one of the dom ladies soon to be under your guy's employment if we want that additional connection. if not, it can just be something to talk about. col doesn't advertise his past but he's not hiding it either.