Okay yes please to all of this! As for how long he’s been on Terminus, not overly long. A month or two, trying to ~settle in a bit. Honestly, she could drive him up every single wall and he’ll sigh the long sigh of weary every time, but he’d drop everything if she ever came to him for anything serious outside their typical shenanigans. He’s one of those doesn’t care (too much) about the context and doesn’t ask (too many) questions, just wants you to at least know he’s an option if you need it types.