I think every bonder or plural group runs into this sooner or later. And.. it used to bother me, but it pretty much just rolls off my back by now. First, I don't believe my bonds to be anything magical or supernatural or otherdimensional or what have you anyway, so yeah; to me it's just how my mind works and how I experience stuff, so someone saying they "don't believe in it" makes me laugh more than anything. You don't believe it? Okay then! Unfortunately, you still don't actually get to decide how I organise my own brain. :D Secondly, I've been living with this stuff long enough to know that it's real to me, that that's what matters, and that people on the internet really can't do anything to change that. Don't worry too much about it. *hug?*