Dinah and Ollie should be awesome and sarcastic and domestic with Dinah wearing the pants and Ollie making the chili and lots of martial arts geekery with Connor and Ollie fighting social injustice and Dinah fighting supervillains and Mia doing chores and Roy and Lian being precious and everybody being goofy and badass and snarky all the time.
Also, the grey doesn't look as good as the red and it doesn't work with Speedy's established color scheme. Also also, your wardrobe and your uniform aren't the same thing.