And I understand that difference. At no point would I agree that lying to get sex is okay. But I still would be very hesitant to call it rape. Going down that road, has there ever been a time when Kal-El consumated his relationship with Lois (in either identity) and didn't tell her about said double-identity?
Because that logic tells us that Superman raped Lois Lane. Anyone in the audience going to argue that? And that also makes Bond a serial rapist.