Look, first off, this is the first time it has become RELEVANT to me that my dictionary was published in the '70's, OK? Normally, I just look up unloaded words like 'obsequious' or something; this is the first time I've ever looked up a word that has such social weight. It's never failed me before. Second, yes, I could have looked it up on Wikipedia or something, but it was the middle of the damn night, and I THOUGHT I was just dashing off a quick message before bed, and I was curious to see what the dictionary said. That's all. An error? Yes, certainly, but not one based on laziness. Third, think what you like of me, man. I'm tired of damn well apologizing. How many times have I done it now? Three? Four? Five? I have ADMITTED that I made a colossal blunder in no uncertain terms, I have apologized over and over again, and still you keep screaming at me. I GET that this is a loaded issue, and that I touched a nerve, and that my reference material led me down the wrong path and I shouldn't have relied on it. I GET all that, but what you don't seem to get was that it was INADVERTENT, as I have said time and time again. It was unintentional, and I'm sick of being bellowed at for what basically boils down to a large faux pas. I have tried to be civil about this since the beginning of the discussion, I've admitted my mistakes, and all I get is extra lashings of venom. Well, up yours, too! If you can't accept a basic apology, then you have no business carrying on a discussion of any sort. I don't damn well care what you think of me at this point - I'm sick and tired of arguing with you, because you obviously think that translates to you screaming at me and me just sitting and taking it, because obviously, YOU'RE right and I'M wrong. Get off your high horse, man! People are human, we make mistakes! I have HAD it with apologizing and re-apologizing simply because you're too busy tearing me a new one to listen! You think I'm a monster? Well, my opinion of you is not too damn high either at the moment, and the only reason I'm not expressing it in direct terms is because I don't want to be banned from the board. I am NOT a monster, I am a human being who made an honest mistake and has admitted as such, and if you can't accept that, then up yours and the horse you rode in on! This isn't about rape anymore, this is about you and your attitude. You can bellow the house down as far as I'm concerned - you can pound the keyboard and spit obscenities and castigate me as the lowest form of life on Earth - I don't care anymore. I have absolutely no interest in the opinions of a man too caught up in his own fury to carry on a civil conversation. Good day, sir, and goodbye.