Look, all I was going by was the dictionary definition, OK? I wasn't talking about my personal feelings on the matter, or anyone's personal feelings on the matter - I was simply saying that, due to what it said in the dictionary in which I looked, perhaps the wrong word had been used. Maybe my dictionary is out of date or something - it's certainly possible; it was published in the '70's - or maybe the legal and the literal interpretations of the word differ; I don't know. All I know is what my dictionary says, and that was what I was going on. Your definition makes sense, all right, and maybe that IS the official definition, and I'm wrong. If so, I'll gladly admit it, but that has NOT 'damned me as a monster', it's defined me as overly pedantic and depending on the wrong research material. Listen, I have obviously offended you, and again, I apologize for this, but can we just drop it? Despite what you seem to believe, I am NOT some kind of fratboy moron who is trying to justify rape, and any implication that I may have been trying to do so was accidental and unintended, and I'm sorry if I touched a nerve. No offense meant, all right? Mea culpa.