And that's always been Scott's problem: he acts like a brooding teen emo-boy where Jean is concerned, and he's a grown man.(look at Claremont's time and how many times you see an anguished Scott with his anguished face, even before her death) A senior now really if he were real. His fixation never really seemed like love to me, more stalky.
I think that Scott being that way, if anything, reinforces certain impulses in the fanboys toward that kind of arrest, if one wants to go there. Given that part of Jean's appeal has always been "That Perfect Girlfriend I'll Have Someday."