I think you may be right (I think there was one more time besides that but the exact storyline slipped my memory).
Maybe I was thinking of all the times when they looked like they were about to kiss or were having passionate looks at each other or in the alternate timeline/dimension Jean/Wolvie pairings that sometimes showed up. It just felt that Marvel was milking the Unresolved Sexual Tension between Jean and Logan for decades and in all that time despite the fact that Scott was the only who actually GOT the girl he came out looking second best (which can be also ascribed to Wolverine's inexplicable uber-popularity).