... which, again, has nothing to do with anything. Whatsoever. Because the discussion is about her love life. Read the thread.
You're arguing against a phantom, here. No one has insulted Babs. No one has said she isn't important. No one has said "gee shucks that first Batgirl sucked, nobody cared about her." The honor you are attempting so valiantly and vehemently to defend has not been attacked or besmirched, not even a little. One poster said "it's funny that Babs gets more play as Oracle than she did as Batgirl," and another poster replied "not really, she's got more pagetime as Oracle, that means more everything period." That is all there is here.
You appear to have conjured some kind of anti-Babs windmill out of that and are now merrily tilting away. I assure you, there is no need, it is just a windmill. There is no Babs-degrading monster here to defeat. We are in fact all very fond of her.