Guys aren't usually given packages at all. But that's really beside the point, since the two aren't really comparable. It's like being out in the Sahara desert and spilling your waterskin, and then being like "well nobody complains when I spill a glass of water back home in New York" when everybody goes "dude WTF." The vast disparity in treatment between male and female character and sexuality in our culture makes drawing absurd tits a very different issue than drawing absurd male crotches.