Yes, this. What was done to Dr Light during IdC was mindrape. What was done to Batman was not. What was done to Jessica Jones by the Purple Man was mindrape. What was done to Spidey here was not (though it was stupid and inexcusable). Telepaths are innately sketchy about privacy issues, but looking is a very different thing than changing, which is a grotesque and horrifying concept which I have no problem acknowledging through terminology as the violation that it is.