Wow. Several layers of offensive, and also a couple of layers of does not compute story logic. It's like seeing way too much into somebody's secret... yeah.
There's the extra, creepy-obvious kid/adult deal, the fact that she's the Lolita instigator (even though I'm guessing that she liked Superboy, not Superman?) I will never read this comic, so can't tell, but that's the impression I'm getting, and if so... 14-year-olds who have crushes on other teenagers probably like them as teenagers, not white-streak haired men in their 40s.
Possibly worse but at least as bad is the mind-wipe (and not only is she fine with getting mind-wiped, she's the one to assure adult 'I think I'd rather not get my mind wiped' Lois that the men are right.) You should let your mind be violated!
Then there's Batman's: 'No fuss, Lois. You know it's for your own good, grown lady and 14-year old!'
Silly girls! You don't need to know our Man secrets and it's best if we alter your brains.
Wrapped up with--again-- the 14-year old's pushiness for this oh-so-special reward, which is bizarrely unlikely, and to cap it all off, the recognition that it's wrong enough that one could get arrested for it, but that it won't happen in this comic. Because all of these other people, including Batman (!), Lois, Clark's parents(right ?), and Mrs. Superman(right ?) are all fine with it.