I just hated House of M's "deepest desire = peter/gwen!!" so much, and this seemed like an echo. It seems an odd thing to overlook, the blond+headband being so very Gwen's, y'know?
But like I said. I'm glad I misread. I'll just re-write it in my head as a nod to the MJ-love outshining even superficial similarity to significant dead girlfriends. A super-plus!