Big Sigh. I don't know where to start with this mess.
I am going to ignore that they feel they need to be in their secret identities to seek counseling. Because apparently there is no patient/client confidentially in the DCU.
But why would they let Kreisberg go back to Dinah's "youth" which is the biggest shitfest of retcons to begin with. And I hope they are not going with a story that I think I see that she is the secret love child of some super villian. I am going to go back to trying to ignore Kreisberg.
Poor Babs. Is she crying because she
A. Knows the pain of having your past rewritten for plot purposes B. Still can't believe that Dinah chose to marry Ollie rather than her C. Has discovered that she is now 15 years older than Dinah